48 Truths That Nobody Wants To Tell You
48 harsh truths that nobody wants to tell you (coming right off the dome)
Today, I’m unveiling 48 truths that nobody wants to tell you.
A few of these may sting when you read them, but that’s a sign that they’re coming at the right time for you.
These are coming right off the dome:
Truth #1: Money amplifies the person you are. If you’re internally weak, making less than $10k/mo, you’ll be internally weak, making $100k/mo.
Truth #2: At a certain stage, more ‘consumption’ becomes meaningless.
Truth #3: There are people with less skill than you who are achieving the things you want because they’re taking the action you’re not.
Truth #4: Skill without exposure is nothing. The ‘average’ barber with excellent exposure will always attract more clients than the ‘exceptional’ barber with average exposure.
Truth #5: Your perception of money is keeping you broke. You believe that money is in ‘scarce’ quantities, and that’s why you’re not making the cash you want to be making.
Truth #6: The easiest way to sign clients is through having maximum conviction. And you build conviction through becoming exceptional at what you do. If you’re not effortlessly attracting opportunities, you’re not (yet) exceptional at what you do.
Truth #7: Other people’s opinions, thoughts, and validation don’t get you paid. Stop being a Picasso-esque IG story maxxer.
Truth #8: The money is made in the boring.
Truth #9: If your internal world is messy, your external world will be messy.
Truth #10: People are naturally self-centered. People only care about what you CAN do for them.
Truth #11: You don’t need revolutionary focus systems in place. Just get clear on what you want, put that phone away, plug in some wired headphones, and get to work.
Truth #12: If you’re still working 10-12 hours/day after being in x industry for a while, you’re doing something wrong. You haven’t systemised enough.
Truth #13: When below $10k/mo, you don’t need to worry about digital presence, YT channels, SOP’s or anything. Just lock yourself in a prison-like environment, send 10 high-value pitches daily, put skill first, and escape the situation you’re in.
Truth #14: The situation you’re currently in (financially, spiritually, and physically) is not coincidental. It’s a direct reflection of the habits/actions you’ve accumulated in the past 6 months. If you don’t like where you’re @, troubleshoot your funnel.
Truth #15: Don’t be afraid of pivoting.
Truth #16: If you’re thinking in scarcity, you’re just not giving enough.
Truth #17: It’s not a flex being a ‘business-only’ freak. The people who make the most money are all-around interesting people. Scale everything.
Truth #18: The loudest person in the room is typically the most insecure.
Truth #19: The service provider with exceptional positioning will always win. You can be more skilled than X service provider, but X service provider will sign more clients than you simply because they’re perceived as high-value.
Truth #20: If you’re the biggest fish in your bubble, you’re preventing growth.
Truth #21: How you do one thing is how you do everything.
Truth #22: It’s not what you do, or how you do it. It’s always WHY you do it. Having a strong ‘WHY’ will keep you going no matter the situation you find yourself in.
Truth #23: Don’t listen to the “don’t watch movies” hustle maxxers. A great movie teaches you lessons that a book can’t.
Truth #24: It’s one skill making money. It’s another skill keeping and managing your money.
Truth #25: Having one woman who supports, cherishes, and appreciates you is 1000x more valuable than having multiple leads in the CRM who you entertain.
Truth #26: You shouldn’t be entertaining women if you’re making less than $10k/mo. If you have a woman now who supports you (no matter your social status) - keep her around. But don’t make women a priority when you’re not where you wanna be.
Truth #27: A woman’s loyalty is tested when you have nothing. Your loyalty is tested when you have everything.
Truth #28: You become immune to a woman’s beauty. When looking for a long-term partner, don’t only pay attention to beauty.
Truth #29: Most women are liabilities. Finding an asset is difficult. But when you find her, keep her close.
Truth #30: A woman may tell you that she wants you to do X thing, but when you do X thing, she’ll lose respect for you. If something doesn’t align with your true masculine energy, don’t do it.
Truth #31: People always remember the first impression you give them. It’s the first impression effect. Don’t sleep on your first impressions.
Truth #32: It’s not so much about what you say, it’s more about how you say it. 7% is spoken word. 38% is through your tone. And 55% is through body language.
Truth #33: Subconscious communication is more important than you think. Look for loopholes to perceive yourself as ‘high-value’ no matter the situation you find yourself in.
Truth #34: When you overly dwell, you plummet your momentum. When something bad happens to you, don’t dwell and instead, use those negatives as fuel to achieve better.
Truth #35: If you don’t adapt to industry changes, you’ll get left behind. Lose your attachment to what you believe is best. Listen to what the market is saying.
Truth #36: You’re not making money as you’re stuck in “me me” world. Escape your ways of thinking and operate from the world of who you’re speaking with, always.
Truth #37: Other people’s goals shouldn’t be your goals. Just because you see someone wanting to make $1m/mo, it doesn’t mean it’s for you. Discover what your ideal life looks like and curate your goals that align with your ideal life.
Truth #38: If people are making money with X, X is not dead. What’s dead is your lack of proactivity.
Truth #39: Credit/charge cards (when used correctly) are one of the best methods for improving your finances.
Truth #40: The people who you may admire the work of are still figuring shit out themselves.
Truth #41: If you’re looking for external validation, you have voids you haven’t filled in internally. The most internally secure people don’t give a F about what people think of them.
Truth #42: The more you fear something happening, the more likely it is to occur. When you’re thinking of the worst, become conscious and reframe the negative into a positive.
Truth #43: To the stressed person, the world is a stressful place. To the anxious person, the world is one full of anxiety. To the scarce person, the world is a place where opportunities are scarce. But to the joyful person, the world is a joyful place. To the abundant person, the world is a place where opportunities are in abundance. Your inner world shapes your reality.
Truth #44: Whenever you think negatively of a thing, you’re still giving energy to the pendulum, and it takes up mental capacity. Instead of thinking negatively, learn to acknowledge, learn, and let go.
Truth #45: Everything in life is frame. Someone is always in power/dictating the conversation. The person who’s dictating is winning.
Truth #46: Walking away is the biggest superpower you can develop.
Truth #47: The person who least expects always receives. The person who overly expects rarely receives.
Truth #48: Treat the person like a celebrity and they’ll treat you like a fan. Don’t put people/clients/girls/opportunities/networking folks on pedestals. When you do, they repulse (vibrational energy) - instead, focus on giving.
hoping you found some value in this,
/maciek lipa